I faced the same issue with my mom when I was growing up, and although it may not seem like it now, I imagine that someday you will thank her for not letting you wear the revealing clothes that are so popular. It’s hard when you feel different, but be encouraged! We are supposed to be different! “Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is - his good, pleasing and perfect will.” (Rom. 12:2)
This verse reminds us that the reason we sometimes feel different from the world is because we are not of the world. God is renewing our minds to be less like the world and more like Him. The fact that you desire to be modest is great! Even women in Bible times struggled with this! For example, in 1 Timothy, the apostle Paul cautions the women, “I also want women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God.” (1 Tim. 2:9-10)
I’m sure all the mothers back in Bible times loved this verse. Much like today, I bet the teenage girls were less than thrilled. It’s an age-old issue, but don’t make it your issue for long. Calmly talk to your mom about how you’re feeling. She’ll respect that you don’t want to stand out among your friends, but that you want to dress modestly. Maybe you can even make some compromises. For example, instead of spaghetti strap tank tops that you always have to wear something over, try sleeveless tank tops that cover more, or instead of a long pair of shorts that were made to be worn short, try a pair of board shorts instead- they’re so in right now! You may have to look a little harder, but it’s definitely possible to dress cute and be modest!
Comments (2)
I totally agree. There are some totally cute things out there, but still modest. Its hard to find sometimes, but totally worth it. Guys WILL notice you because they appreciate how you respect your body AND them. Plus you'll stand out from all those girls trying to get attention, except you'll stand out in a good way!
Posted by Mer | May 7, 2008 6:56 PM
I want to honor and glorify God in everything I do, even the clothes I put on. There are really cute clothes that are modest. It may just take looking slightly harder in the mall. And if there is something that would show too much skin, there is a fix for almost anything! =D There are leggings for skirts, shrugs to go over spaqhetti-strapped tops and you can still look very stylish and much more put-together. I do agree that it is hard to "not fit in" sometimes. I feel like I'm the only one in the pool in a tankini (that took forever to find because it is not low-cut and does not show much stomach). Everyone is in this "bikini craze" it seems like. As Christians, let's set a high standard and people will give you respect! =D God bless you all!
Posted by BallerinaGirl | May 12, 2008 7:16 PM